My kids were discussing vacation with me and asked if the motel we were staying at would have a cat pool. "I am going to swim in the cat pool as soon as we get there!" They exclaimed. What, you might ask, is a cat pool? So did I. Anyone who has ever questioned children knows the insanity of trying to arrive at any kind of logic, but finally I discovered that their "cat pool" was derived from "kitty pool," which is a hop-skip-and-a-jump from the true origin -"kiddie pool." These several years of my children playing in water and just now I'm finding out that in their minds swimming is somehow related to cats! And, as I always do, I can't help but wonder if there is a lesson to be learned here on communication and listening practices. How many times do we misunderstand each other, like that classic game of telephone, without even realizing it? I know my husband and I do it to each other all the time, and only find out after some mutual frustration that we are actually saying and wanting the same things, only stated and understood differently. So I'm vowing now that every time I feel judgmental or wonder at someone else's motivations, I'm going to think of cats in a swimming pool, and hope that it recalls to me that we never know what is going on in other people's minds.